Supporting a Friend or Coworker with PTSD
Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) can affect anyone who has experienced a traumatic event, and it often impacts daily life in ways that aren’t always visible. If you have a friend or coworker living with PTSD, your understanding and support can make a meaningful difference in their journey toward healing.
Here’s a friendly guide on how to be there for someone with PTSD — without overwhelming yourself or them.
What Is PTSD?
PTSD is a mental health condition triggered by experiencing or witnessing trauma such as accidents, violence, natural disasters, or military combat. Symptoms might include flashbacks, anxiety, irritability, difficulty concentrating, or feeling detached from others.
How to Support Without Overstepping
Educate Yourself: Learning about PTSD helps you understand what your friend or coworker is going through. This reduces misunderstandings and builds empathy.
Listen Actively: Sometimes the best support is just being there to listen — without judgment or trying to “fix” things.
Respect Boundaries: Everyone’s healing process is different. If they don’t want to talk or need space, respect that without taking it personally.
Be Patient: Recovery can have ups and downs. Showing consistent care over time helps build trust.
Offer Practical Help: Simple gestures like helping with tasks, offering a quiet place, or checking in can ease daily stress.
Encourage Professional Help: Gently suggest counseling or support groups if they seem open, but avoid pressuring them.
What to Avoid
Don’t Dismiss Their Feelings: Avoid phrases like “just get over it” or “it’s all in your head.” PTSD is a real and serious condition.
Don’t Push for Details: Let them share what they feel comfortable sharing.
Avoid Triggers: If you know certain topics, places, or activities cause distress, try to be mindful and avoid bringing them up.
Taking Care of Yourself
Supporting someone with PTSD can sometimes be emotionally challenging. Make sure you also take time for your own well-being and seek support if you need it.
Final Thought
Being a supportive friend or coworker means showing kindness, patience, and understanding. Your presence alone can be a powerful source of comfort and strength for someone living with PTSD.
Remember: small acts of support can have a big impact.
